Drill Holes in my brain.

Don't panic. I don't really mean to drill holes on my brain. It's not the first day that I realized that I can't see things from different views. This problem has not been fixed up until now. I"m not going to tell you why or when or who inspired me to have this thought again, though I'd like to try my very best to share with you how I feel about that.

I'll take Biology as an example. When I see the following question: Why's the number of urination or a pregnant woman more than a normal adult?, I can't help but to think in the most common way, which is what everyone can think of, i.e. there's the embryo producing urine and so the urinary bladder is full in a shorter time. This is a factor, yet this is not responsible for the significant change. Guess wht. The answer is that since the embryo is in the uterus, occupying a large space, and so the urinary bladder is compressed, resulting in a smaller capacity of urine.
Err.... well, I just don't understand what on earth makes the difference that I can't think of any relevant answers while others can, without the slightest hesitatoin. The only reason I can think of is, as in Chinese saying, that My brain can't "turn as fast as the people can" .

So, how am I supposed to fix that up? I have no idea. Read more? If I know something just because I read it before then I don't regard that as solving the problem. I want my answer to come from my brainstorm, but not from my memory. Maybe I'm wrong, as I used to be.
Someone please help me.

The next thing I want to talk about is that, as I grow up I gradually really realize that not everything hidden in your heart can be exposed, coz this may hurt others, annoyed others, make others feel hatred, which are what I don't want to happen. I gotta learn to say the appropiate things.

That's the rule I learn, "Look before you leap, Think before you speak".

PS: BTW I'd like to thank my good friend, desiree, for sharing with me those verses in the Bible and all the things you helped me. You're sweet. :P

Cheers

Kelvin